salt and pepper haired woman finds empowerment at 45 wearing black lingerie on a bed at Boudoir Photoshoot

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This is where we talk honestly about being photographed—the nerves, the stories we carry about ourselves, and what can happen when we finally step in front of the lens. You’ll find portrait inspiration, behind-the-scenes guidance, and real conversations about confidence, visibility, aging, and taking up space.

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“I never felt confident, beautiful, any of that.  I can now say I look damn good at 45!” Ms J I love when a woman owns her beauty especially when it happens after the age of 40.  As a woman over 40, I understand now how silly I was worrying about the cellulite in my […]

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Open letter to my 18-year-old self

“When I dare to be powerful, to use my strength in the service of my vision, then it becomes less and less important whether I am afraid.” Audre Lorde About a month ago, while I was preparing my blog post about honoring mothers, I came across a suggestion to write an open letter to my […]

53 year-old Blond hair and Blue eyed woman feels like a supermodel on white sheet for Boudoir Photoshoot

Studio Boudoir

Ms G | 50s Supermodel | Solon Iowa Boudoir

I am 53 and feel like I really wanted to capture how I look now.  I felt glamorous, sexy, and beautiful. A little like I could do anything. Ms G Transitions- Life is full of them.  I used to hate them because they always disrupted my happy little predictable routines.  With each one comes growth […]

Brunette hair and green eyed woman laying on a bed celebrating sobriety with Boudoir Photoshoot

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Ms K | Celebrate Sobriety | Waterloo Iowa Boudoir

“After looking at the pictures I thought… Hell yeah. I did this, that is me! Being sober doesn’t automatically mean happily ever after” There are so many reasons women come to me to do a session.  As a gift, for themselves or someone else, celebrate a milestone, boost confidence, and even overcome trauma from their […]

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Boudoir in Las Vegas?

Happy April!  I cannot believe we have entered Spring and are 4 months into 2022.  Every year goes faster and faster!  For Boudoir photographers, October through Jan can be a blur as that tends to be our busy season.  Conference season kicks off, both in Iowa and nationally, during the same time frame and runs […]

Brunette hair and blue eyed woman wearing black lace body stocking feeling like princess for a day with Boudoir Photoshoot

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Ms B | Princess for a Day Maxwell Boudoir

“After I saw my images, I was ready to take on the world.” B: this fiery senorita always has me rolling on the floor with her saucy personality.  We knew each other when we were mere babes and it had been almost 20 years since we had connected. So it was surreal when she reached […]

Blond hair woman wearing lace dress for Iowa Mother Portrait Photoshoot

Motherhood

Are Mothers honored? Iowa Mother Portrait

“What will you do one day when your children look for photographs of you and there are none?” Sue Bryce I want to talk about Moms. None of us would be here if we didn’t have one and some of us have carried that legacy on by becoming mothers ourselves. There has been a shift […]

Brunette blue eyed woman on a car for outdoor boudoir photoshoot

Outdoor Sessions

Ms T | Boudoir on a Car- Johnston Boudoir

“Feminism isn’t about making women strong.  Women are already strong. It’s about changing the way the world perceives that strength” – G.D. Anderson T came to via referral from another happy client.  This session was for her.  She lives life on her terms not what society dictates.  A celebration of her accomplishments, loves, and an […]

Brunette hair and brown eyed woman creating wedding present wearing black lace bodysuit for Boudoir Photoshoot

Bridal Boudoir

Ms M | Wedding Present- Anamosa Iowa Boudoir

“I’m also a firm believer that you get what you pay for and I will definitely be back because it was so much fun and everything turned out fantastic.” Ms M, the blushing bride!  Every bride I photograph takes me back to my roots and what started me down this amazing journey of helping women […]

Brunette and blue eyed woman wearing blue lace decides it's her turn for DIY Boudoir Photoshoot

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Ms D | My Turn | Iowa Boudoir

“Cassy made me feel so comfortable in my own skin, and after she told me how good I looked 20 times (cause that’s what she does- and she means it!), I started to believe her too!” Ah Ms D!  I’m super excited to talk about her and her session.  She’s been my main squeeze (hair […]

Brunette hair and green eyed woman going from timid to confident wearing black lace for Boudoir Photoshoot

Studio Boudoir

Ms L | Timid to Confident | Iowa Boudoir

“Cassy made me feel so comfortable and was so encouraging. I went from timid to confident and giddy. I truly had an amazing time. ” Ms L Hello, my friend!  Thanks for joining me again.  Today we are celebrating Ms L. L reached out to me to create a unique one-of-a-kind anniversary gift for her husband.  […]

Blond hair woman proving never too old for boudoir laying on bed during Boudoir Photoshoot

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Ms D | Never too old | Iowa Boudoir

“Cassy is incredible. She definitely made me feel proud of my age and body” Ms D Age is nothing but a number and a mindset.  I love to prove it to clients again and again.  Ms D had always thought about doing a session and decided, “dang it, I’m not getting any younger!”  She reached […]

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