“Made me look at myself as a sexual being and not just a fat lady!”

The whispers of insecurity can be incredibly loud, especially when it comes to our bodies. For many women, particularly those of us over 40 who’ve navigated life’s changes, the idea of a boudoir session can bring up fears of not “looking right,” or feeling “fat and gross.” But what if those fears could be silenced, replaced by a radiant sense of self-acceptance and a newfound feeling of being a “sexual being”?

My recent client, Ms. C, bravely faced these very concerns. She candidly shared her worry about how she would appear in intimate photos, even expressing a fear of feeling “fat & gross.” Yet, driven by a desire for self-esteem and a special gift for her boyfriend, she took the leap. Her journey, filled with laughter and empowering poses, became a testament to seeing herself as truly fantastic – a transformation she credits to a little “magician” touch.

What was your biggest concern prior to booking your Boudoir Session? How do you feel now?

Cost was a concern, but Cassy helped me make the most of my hard-earned money!

I was also afraid, because I am a larger woman that I would feel/look fat & gross but the photos make me look fantastic!  Cassy is a magician!!

Have you ever done a boudoir shoot before? If so, how does your shoot with Cassy compare to your prior experience?

No

How would you rate your overall experience?

★★★★★

Why did you do your boudoir shoot?

My own self-esteem and a gift for my boyfriend!

What, specifically, did you enjoy most about your portrait session and why?

The whole shoot was SO MUCH FUN!!  Lots of laughs and fun!!  Cassy made me feel less self-conscious about my weight and was wonderful at showing me EXACTLY how to pose.  

What did doing this shoot do for your self confidence, self worth, and self image? Tell me your story.

Made me look at myself as a sexual being and not just a fat lady!  

Do you feel your images and the services you received were worth the money you paid? How so?

Yes.  It was still pretty expensive but it was an experience I will never forget!  From the makeover to the photo shoot, it was all very well done!  My boyfriend LOVED it and LOVES it STILL with the phone app.

Again….Cassy is a magician!!

Is there anything extra you would like to tell us?

I hope that I will be able to do another shoot someday; especially after I lose weight!  It would be fun to compare the before and after photos!  

“The whole shoot was SO MUCH FUN!!”

Ms. C’s enthusiasm is infectious, and it’s a core part of the luxury boudoir experience I strive to create. Beyond the professional posing that makes every woman feel amazing, it’s about laughter, comfort, and transforming self-doubt into genuine self-love. Ms. C’s incredible shift from feeling “fat & gross” to confidently embracing her body

Ms. C’s powerful journey from fear and self-consciousness to seeing herself as a “sexual being” is exactly why I pour my heart into every boudoir session. Her story beautifully illustrates that self-worth isn’t tied to a number on the scale, but to how we choose to see and celebrate ourselves. Despite initial cost concerns, the unforgettable experience and the joy her images brought to both her and her boyfriend speak volumes about its profound value.

If you’re a woman struggling with body image, please know that you deserve to feel fantastic and see yourself as the magnificent being you are. A luxury boudoir session is more than just photos; it’s an experience designed to make you feel like a supermodel, just as Ms. C did. Perhaps, like her, you’ll discover a magic you never knew existed.

Hair and Makeup by Danni Manning of True Beauty

Have you thought about booking your own shoot with Cassy? Download your complimentary Dream Shoot Planner by clicking HERE.  It will tell you all about the experience and what to expect.  I would love to chat with you! You can give me a call directly at 319-849-5152.  You can also email me at info@cassykphotography.com.  I can’t wait to hear from you!