“It showed me that I am beautiful by my own standards and not anyone else’s.”

Ever felt that little knot in your stomach when stepping into something new, especially when it involves being a bit vulnerable? You’re definitely not alone. The idea of a boudoir session can bring up thoughts of ‘Will I be comfortable? Will I look my best?’ (Spoiler alert: the answer is always yes, especially with a few well-placed terrible jokes from yours truly). Today, we’re diving into Ms. M’s session. Even though we are keeping her images on the anonymous side, it is still a beautiful testament to how connection and trust can transform initial nerves into undeniable self-assurance and unlock inner confidence you didn’t even know was there.

For Ms. M, her biggest concern before booking was ‘Feeling uncomfortable during the shoot due to the physical vulnerability.’ And let’s be real, that’s a perfectly valid worry! As she beautifully put it, “That fear was squashed from the beginning of my first call with Cassy.” The magic starts long before the camera even comes out. My goal is always to build a bridge of trust, making sure you feel seen and safe from hello to goodbye, with plenty of check-ins along the way to ensure your comfort. (Because nobody wants awkward silence, unless it’s for dramatic effect!).

Despite this being her very first boudoir experience, Ms. M felt completely at ease. She shared that “The entire experience was smooth from start to finish.” From getting pampered with professional hair and makeup (always a treat, right?) to easing into poses and even some deep breathing exercises – every detail is taken care of so you can truly focus on yourself. As she reflected, ‘Cassy made me feel so comfortable throughout the entire process… I left feeling confident and beautiful and her pictures proved that to me as well.’ That ‘comfortable and confident’ feeling is exactly what we aim for!

The impact of the session stretched far beyond the studio doors. For Ms. M, it ‘enhanced my self-confidence I’ve been growing over the past few months. It showed me that I am beautiful by my own standards and not anyone else’s.’ She felt ‘sexy and bold’ – characteristics she doesn’t commonly feel, yet are so deeply a part of her. Looking at her stunning pictures, she says, ‘brings back those confident feelings.’ That’s the lasting power of investing in yourself. Even going ‘out of her budget,’ she confirmed it was ‘worth it. Getting the best care and best images that I will have to remind me of my confidence is worth it.’ And a resounding ‘Very likely’ when asked about recommending me? That’s the kind of feedback that makes my heart sing!

What was your biggest concern prior to booking your Boudoir Session? How do you feel now?

Feeling uncomfortable during the shoot due to the physical vulnerability. That fear was squashed from the beginning of my first call with Cassy. She made me feel at ease throughout the entire process and checked in consistently to make sure I was comfortable with everything.

Have you ever done a boudoir shoot before? If so, how does your shoot with Cassy compare to your prior experience?

I had not

How would you rate your overall experience?

★★★★★

Why did you do your boudoir shoot?

I did the boudoir shoot to create a tangible gift for my husband for our anniversary as well as feel confident in my body.

What, specifically, did you enjoy most about your portrait session and why?

The entire experience was smooth from start to finish. It is always fun to be pampered with hair and makeup, and my stylist did a great job highlighting my different facial features. Then during the shoot, Cassy made me feel so comfortable throughout the entire process, from getting into the lingerie, to learning the poses, to deep breathing and everything in between. I left feeling confident and beautiful and her pictures proved that to me as well. 

What did doing this shoot do for your self confidence, self worth, and self image? Tell me your story.

It enhanced my self-confidence I’ve been growing over the past few months. It showed me that I am beautiful by my own standards and not anyone else’s. The experience made me feel sexy and bold which are characteristics I don’t commonly feel. I am grateful for the experience and looking at my pictures brings back those confident feelings.

Do you feel your images and the services you received were worth the money you paid? How so?

Yes! The pictures are amazing, and it was so hard to narrow it down. The quality of the album I purchased is top notch and displays the photos better than a typical handmade photo album.

Is there anything extra you would like to tell us?

Thank you so much for helping me through this experience. My husband LOVED the gift and was so surprised. I’m so glad I was able to experience a boudoir session with you. Thank you!!

Ms. M’s session beautifully illustrates that true transformation happens when you feel truly comfortable, seen, and empowered.

It’s about building a relationship where vulnerability feels safe, and humor helps ease any jitters (because life’s too short not to laugh!). Every woman deserves to shed the idea of who she’s “supposed to be” and unlock inner confidence. This truly was an incredible experience for Ms. M and for me. As she perfectly summed it up, “Thank you so much for helping me through this experience. My husband LOVED the gift and was so surprised. I’m so glad I was able to experience a boudoir session with you. Thank you!!”

If Ms. M’s story inspires you to explore your own inherent beauty and confidence, know that my space is an environment where you’re celebrated, just as you are. Your journey to self-love starts with a simple, comfortable conversation.”

Hair and Makeup by Danni Manning of True Beauty

Have you thought about booking your own shoot with Cassy? Download your complimentary Dream Shoot Planner by clicking HERE. It will tell you all about the experience and what to expect.  I would love to chat with you! You can give me a call directly at 319-849-5152.  You can also email me at info@cassykphotography.com.  I can’t wait to hear from you!