“I never thought I would ever do a session.”

These words from my recent client, B, resonate deeply with so many women, especially those of us over 40 who’ve lived a bit, loved a lot, and perhaps, for too long, put our own feelings of “enough” on the back burner. It’s a sentiment I hear often: a longing for a boudoir experience, coupled with a nagging doubt that we might not “look right.”

But what if letting go of that doubt was the best decision you could ever make? B’s journey is a powerful testament to just that. Encouraged by her fiancé, she bravely stepped into my studio, shedding years of feeling “not enough” from a previous relationship. Her story is about embracing the unknown and discovering a confidence she never imagined.

Tell us your story, a little bit about you and why you decided to do a boudoir session?

My name is Bekka and I never thought I would ever do a session. I’d wanted to so badly but in my previous relationship I never felt like enough. My fiancé was so encouraging, that I was beautiful and I deserved this chance to boost myself.  I went back and forth about it a little bit but I decided, what the hell. Best. Decision. Ever!

What was your biggest concern prior to booking your Boudoir Session? How do you feel now?

I was so concerned that I wouldn’t “look” right. That I would do the session and wouldn’t like the results. I’m so happy I did this, it’s honestly the biggest confidence boost I’ve ever had. 

Have you ever done a boudoir shoot before? If so, how does your shoot with Cassy compare to your prior experience?

I had never done a boudoir session before but I’ve had other photography sessions. Cassy made me feel so confident and beautiful. 

What, specifically, did you enjoy most about your portrait session and why?

Cassy is so professional and super super nice! I loved that she posed me literally from head to toe. I didn’t know what to do but she said, “I got you”. She would pose me and before she even took the shot she was saying it looked great. 

What did doing this shoot do for your self confidence, self worth, and self image? Tell me your story.

This shoot helped me love my body. I’ve struggled with self-esteem and body confidence my entire life. I was so worried that I would get this session done and get my photos and only focus on how awful my body looks. When I did my photo view with Cassy I was so surprised! All the things I didn’t like about myself were there, but they weren’t important. I never thought I would look at a photo with one of my biggest insecurities on full display and think , Damn, I look great. But I do! That’s the greatest part. 

Was your experience what you were expecting? If not, how was it different?

I wasn’t expecting to feel so comfortable being that exposed in front of someone I barely knew. It was great that it was just her and I in the studio. I’m sure that helped with my confidence. Plus the fact Cassy is so encouraging and really is the greatest hypeman during your shoot. 

Is there anything extra you would like to tell us?

This was one of the greatest things I could’ve done for my self confidence. I’m so glad I came across Cassy. Thank you!

“This was one of the greatest things I could’ve done for my self confidence.”

B’s powerful words perfectly encapsulate the essence of what I strive to create in every session. It’s not just about taking pictures; it’s about providing a luxurious, comfortable, and empowering experience that helps you genuinely love your body, even the parts you’ve always struggled with. Being that “greatest hypeman” and guiding you through every pose is part of my passion.

If you’re someone, ready to invest in your self-worth and discover the amazing confidence B found, a boudoir session might be your next best decision. You deserve to look in the mirror and think, “Damn, I look great!”

Hair and Makeup by Danni Manning of True Beauty

Have you thought about booking your own shoot with Cassy? Download your complimentary Dream Shoot Planner by clicking HERE.  It will tell you all about the experience and what to expect.  I would love to chat with you! You can give me a call directly at 319-849-5152.  You can also email me at info@cassykphotography.com.  I can’t wait to hear from you!